• Positive Partnerships
     
    © Jennifer Esperanza
     
    With focused intention on drawing into her life a partner “with whom she could better the earth”, Mary met Ken twelve years ago. In their “chance” encounter, each quickly recognized something deeper in the other and pursued the exploration of developing a unique relationship from that awareness.
     
    Ken and Mary married two years later at the onset of the new millennium (2000). During the next twelve years of their marriage, they have dedicated their lives not only to their own health and well-being, but to all those whom they encounter.
     
    With backgrounds and previous experience in the fields of psychotherapy and hypnotherapy, Mary and Ken unite their strengths to initiate the vision of Positive Pairing Into Sacred Union.

Positive Pairing

 My Vision:

I invite and empower the global flourishing of “positive pairs” – couples who are engaged in strength-based relationships and dedicated to mirroring the best in one another.

Watch an overview of the Positive Pairing process in this short 2 minute video describing the 8 Key Principles.

Positive Pairing into Sacred Union” is a coaching model for couples to enrich, enhance, and empower their loving relationships by building upon their core strengths, as well as capitalizing on their shared attractor strengths.  The uniqueness and individuality of each husband, wife, or life partner as characterized by his/her core strengths becomes the starting point of relationship when added to those of one’s beloved.

Another focus of the “Positive Pairing” model is coaching couples in optimistic living with a more positive approach to life. Despite the possible everyday stressors encountered while being involved in this adventure, concrete techniques are utilized to raise the happiness set point within the relationship. Couples are encouraged to do a daily workout for increasing their levels of positive emotions, as well as become involved in the completion of intentional exercises for sharing designed to induce greater levels of positivity.

Find out where your attitudes lie in your current relationship(s) by taking the Test of Positivity in Relationship now. Click here to download the Positive Pairing Test

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  • The 8 Key Principles
     
     
    1. Identify and live from your unique individual strengths and virtues.
     
    2. Build one another up into a “positivity” friendship.
     
    3. Allocate adequate “free” time and space apart, as well as for “couple-bonding” time together.
     
    4. Connect mentally, emotionally, physically, and sexually by active encounters (both spontaneous and planned).
     
    5. Enhance your couple “vibe” or energy quotient through practicing greater levels of emotional well-being (peace, love, gratitude, joy, and hope).
     
    6. Nourish your shared goals and vision(s) as a couple.
     
    7. Acknowledge and give outward expression to the spiritual (religious, consciousness, or “meaning-making”) foundation of your couple union.
     
    8. Deepen into your supportive union by jointly giving back to others (family, community, the Arts, charities/non-profits, humanity, etc.)